Think your Mr. Next has the potential to be Mr. Right? Before you leap
without looking, take an honest inventory. See how many of the following
five essential traits he possesses.
Dating Trait #1: He listens to you
The best way to know if Mr. Next is interested in (and worthyof) being a
candidate for Mr. Right? He listens to you. You'll know he's listening
when he shows genuine concern, consistently remembers things you've
told him (your birthday, favorite food, best friend's name, etc.), and offers
emotional support in honest and thoughtful ways.
Dating Trait #2: He connects with you easily
We've all been in those relationships that take W-O-R-K (and suck the life force out of us in the process).
When a relationship works on its own, it feels effortless, easy, and fluid. You don't have to force anything,
forgive anyone, or turn a blind eye to red flags or gut-twisters. Instead, you communicate and collaborate
with comfort, compatibility, and undeniable chemistry. If and when you experience this kind of interaction,
you are on to something really special.
Dating Trait #3: He wants the real you
So often, women feel the need to sacrifice some part of themselves to make a relationship work. In the right
relationship, there's no need. You don't have to hide, tone down, or apologize for any aspect of you or your
fabulous life. With the right partner, you're not only able to be yourself, but you're better able to be the best
version of your most authentic self -- no compromises needed.
Dating Trait #4: He's trustworthy
A relationship without trust is doomed from the start. But a relationship with
abundant trust? A fabulous foundation for real and lasting love! Built over
time, trust is based on the simple belief system that your partner has your
best interests at heart and will never intentionally hurt you (and vice versa). If
and when you discover that Mr. Next is 100 percent trustworthy, you'll have
no trouble giving your heart to him. In return, he'll most likely give you his
heart and pave the way for a lasting, loving relationship to unfold.
Dating Trait #5: He enriches your life
In the wrong relationship, your partner tears you to emotional shreds, brings
you down, and in general drains your energy. In the right relationship, he
enriches your life, inspires you to be your best self, and brings a sense of peace and possibility to you. You'll
know Mr. Next is enriching your life if and when he encourages and supports you professionally, personally,
and spiritually. And when he does, he may just be Mr. Right!
Does your Mr. Next possess all five qualities? If so, congratulations! You have done your homework, chosen
wisely, and are now well positioned for relationship success.
If not, pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and get back into the dating pool with a clearer understanding of
who you want to date. Remember, finding your life partner isn't always easy, but by being clear, honoring
yourself, and acting accordingly, you'll cut down on wasted time with Mr. Wrong and Mr. Next, and ultimately
make room for Mr. Right.
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