Sunday, March 28, 2010

在 facebook 狂狂 看到两个人 谈到 暧昧 的 痛苦, 也忍耐不住的给点意见。也想 到 杨丞琳 , 王菲 和 侯湘婷   在不同的时代 的歌。

暧昧 侯湘婷

暧昧 杨丞琳

暧昧 王菲 ( 没有MP3 是粤语版)

Is He Mr. Right?

Interesting article !!


Think your Mr. Next has the potential to be Mr. Right? Before you leap
without looking, take an honest inventory. See how many of the following
five essential traits he possesses.

Dating Trait #1: He listens to you
The best way to know if Mr. Next is interested in (and worthyof) being a
candidate for Mr. Right? He listens to you. You'll know he's listening
when he shows genuine concern, consistently remembers things you've
told him (your birthday, favorite food, best friend's name, etc.), and offers
emotional support in honest and thoughtful ways.

Dating Trait #2: He connects with you easily
We've all been in those relationships that take W-O-R-K (and suck the life force out of us in the process).
When a relationship works on its own, it feels effortless, easy, and fluid. You don't have to force anything,
forgive anyone, or turn a blind eye to red flags or gut-twisters. Instead, you communicate and collaborate
with comfort, compatibility, and undeniable chemistry. If and when you experience this kind of interaction,
you are on to something really special.

Dating Trait #3: He wants the real you
So often, women feel the need to sacrifice some part of themselves to make a relationship work. In the right
relationship, there's no need. You don't have to hide, tone down, or apologize for any aspect of you or your
fabulous life. With the right partner, you're not only able to be yourself, but you're better able to be the best
version of your most authentic self -- no compromises needed.

Dating Trait #4: He's trustworthy
A relationship without trust is doomed from the start. But a relationship with
abundant trust? A fabulous foundation for real and lasting love! Built over
time, trust is based on the simple belief system that your partner has your
best interests at heart and will never intentionally hurt you (and vice versa). If
and when you discover that Mr. Next is 100 percent trustworthy, you'll have
no trouble giving your heart to him. In return, he'll most likely give you his
heart and pave the way for a lasting, loving relationship to unfold.

Dating Trait #5: He enriches your life
In the wrong relationship, your partner tears you to emotional shreds, brings
you down, and in general drains your energy. In the right relationship, he
enriches your life, inspires you to be your best self, and brings a sense of peace and possibility to you. You'll
know Mr. Next is enriching your life if and when he encourages and supports you professionally, personally,
and spiritually. And when he does, he may just be Mr. Right!
Does your Mr. Next possess all five qualities? If so, congratulations! You have done your homework, chosen
wisely, and are now well positioned for relationship success.

If not, pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and get back into the dating pool with a clearer understanding of
who you want to date. Remember, finding your life partner isn't always easy, but by being clear, honoring
yourself, and acting accordingly, you'll cut down on wasted time with Mr. Wrong and Mr. Next, and ultimately
make room for Mr. Right.


Ref:
http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/singles/datingtips/print88959/dating-101-is-he-mr-right;_ylt=Am6akScy3SM42ekcx01TuE5Vqrp_

Friday, March 26, 2010

《SHERO》 S.H.E 最新专辑

好听,很好听,有空一定要听是今天刚出炉。
我最喜欢的一首就是

《《 少了一个人》》

.. 思念却也被滚烫冒烟了
最后的简讯 看到能背了
多久没有再联络 一想还是痛
少了一个人宠爱我
朋友的爱 成分就是不同....



专辑中文名: SHERO

歌手: S.H.E音乐风格: 流行
资源格式: MP3
发行时间: 2010年03月26日
地区: 台湾
语言: 普通话

专辑介绍:
继第三次世界巡迴演唱会《S.H.E is the One 爱而为一》后,台湾人气组合S.H.E久睽了一年半后终於再推出全新专辑 《SHERO》。《SHERO》带出新世代S.H.E女王新风潮,代表著HERO+HISTORY,S.H.E演绎出女人对爱情的敢爱敢恨,对工作与生活独立,对自己不因外表而妄自菲薄,懂得爱自己才会找到幸福。点题曲「SHERO」由阿璞作曲,五月天阿信谱词,打造出 S.H.E女王天团的摇滚新歌,同时为 2010台北国际花卉博览会指定主题曲。
在第12张全新专辑中,S.H.E还有与师弟周定纬合唱情歌「两个人的荒岛」,并收录了成员Ella演出最新的偶像剧《就想赖著你》的主题曲「爱上你」。

一年半的等待 S.H.E 最新专辑 终於来了
华语乐坛编年史独一无二女王天团
S.H.E 2010年全新大碟 SHERO
音乐、视觉再掀女王风潮
 
专辑曲目: MP3 File

01. SHERO(2010臺北国际花卉博览会指定主题曲)

02. 如果你是女孩

03. 我爱雨夜花

04. 两个人的荒岛 (Duet with周定纬)

05. 少了一个人

06. 收留我

07. 超可能

08. 爱上你 (电视剧「就想赖著妳」片尾曲)

09. 你不会

10. 爱就对了

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

iPhone 4G Rumors Heat Up - Daniel Ionescu

(A concept image of the rumored iPhone 4G, courtesy of iPhoneRoot.com.)

 
It's been less than a year since the iPhone 3GS launched, and the rumor mill is already churning out speculation about an upcoming iPhone 4G, expected as early as May

New rumors have been circulating over the past couple of days, saying a new Apple iPhone 4G will be available by June, or even as early as May. Besides the earlier-than-expected launch date (new iPhone models traditionally come out in June or July), potential new features are in discussion as well, such as abetter camera, an OLED screen, a removable battery, and different casing
A Bloomberg/BusinessWeek report quotes an analyst from the Goldman Sachs Group saying the iPhone 4G would have a better camera than the 3-megapixel shooter found on the iPhone 3GS. The iPhone 4G's camera could offer up to 5 megapixels, which would put it on the par with the camera in Google's NexusOne.The story also speculates that Apple is working on an updated version of the iPhone OS with an overhauled App Store. The analyst in the Bloomberg story did not identify who gave him the information, but speculates the iPhone 4G will go into production as early as April, with availability expected sometime in June or July.
Derailing from the usual July/July launch timeframe though, is a report originating from a French Web site, which claims we are likely to see the next generation iPhone in May. The report says Apple targeted May because it thought that's when Google would release their Nexus One Android smartphone. Actually, the Nexus One was unveiled earlier this month. Is it like that Apple would move up the release of a new iPhone to compete with Google? Maybe. But it doesn't seem likely that Apple would misjudge Google's launch date by several months.
Also this week, a report from Korea Times quoted unnamed mobile executives claiming the iPhone 4G will have an OLED screen and support for video chat. Most surprisingly, it claimed that the upcoming iPhone would feature a removable battery -- though the chances of this happening are slight (Apple refused to use removable batteries in all three generations of iPhones and its latest laptops also sport non-removable batteries).
All in all, some of these rumors are plausible, such as the OLED screen and a better camera, though earlier launch dates as soon as May might seem a bit far-fetched, as Apple usually refreshes products in a yearly cycle.

ReF:

Friday, March 12, 2010

认真的女人最美

1.最主要,女生还是要努力让自己出色些,从能力到容貌。台湾有名广告词:认真的女人最美丽。每个人都有选择自己生活方式的权利,但一定要认真,对自己,对工作,对生活,这样的女人就算不是天生丽质,也有一种自信从容的美,只有这样一种美才能和时间对抗,也才是好男人欣赏的类型。玩弄生活玩弄男人的人最终也会被玩弄。



可能很多姐妹不是工作上很出色的人,能把自己收拾得干净清爽,也是一个很大的优点。不管怎么说,现实中的男人还是首先容易以貌取人的,不是所以的男人都只爱最美的女人,对于干净清爽的女人,大多数男人还有有好感的。
2.好男人,对自己有要求,对女人没要求。凡是自己对工作得过且过,却对自己的女友有诸多要求的男人,还是敬而远之比较好。这样的男人,婚后变得毒舌男的机率最高。我们姐妹嫁人,最少要求的是被自己的丈夫尊重,认为自己有权利对妻子呼来喝去的男人不是好的结婚对象。


3.嫁人最主要看人品,性格。相似的性格,相似的人生观、金钱观是婚姻生活最好的保障。个性不同,两个人平日里都说不来,就算是全世界都公认是金童玉女,天生一对,也是不能嫁的,毕竟你的一生中大多数时间是要与他共度的,冷暖自知。


4.一开始就说配不上你的男人,以后他永远都会配不上你。对一些出色的女生来说,总会遇上一些看似潜力股的男人,你为他改变自己,付出全部,他却说,你对他太好了,他的(学历,金钱,能力,地位,相貌等等)配不上你。我身边好多姐妹们的例子证明,没有自信,只能靠你屈就才能交往的男人,以后对你不会好的,你的出色只会让他更自卑。
5.托付终身前,要看一看他的家人。不是看他家有多少钱,是看他家家人是不是家庭和睦,关心礼让。一个家人中有男人打女人,大家还不闻不问,装作没看见的家庭,以后也不会管你的死活的。每个家庭都有缺点,要问清自己男友的态度,一味愚忠的男人,心里对妻子的尊重是有限的。
6.对自己手紧,对女友也手紧的男人没有情趣。对自己手松,对女友手紧的男人一定自私,是最不能嫁的。金钱是最能看出一个男人本质和感情的东西。姐妹们谈恋爱不是谈钱,但如果他在钱上让你感觉不对,就该好好想想他是不是合适你了。在谈恋爱的时候,正常的消费是应该的,见面开始就说清要AA的男人太精于算计,也太怕吃亏了。在未来的婚姻中,有许多需要人牺牲的地方,这样的男人会最先跑掉。


7.打人的男人不能要,被打一次一定要分手。花心的,脚踩几条船的男人不能要,发现一次一定要分手。老话说了,当断不断,反受其乱。
8.恋爱中女生要有自己的底线。决不能因为爱他,就放弃自己的尊严,侮辱自己的父母,抛弃自己的工作。好的感情,婚姻一定是双赢,而不是单方面的牺牲和成全。
9。遇到自己喜欢的男人,一定要勇敢去追。单恋是最伤人的,也是最没有结果的。


10。有话明说。有什么想法,说出来,不要让男人去猜,能沟通,你的生活会更快乐。不能沟通,说明你们的幸福还没有保证。我想,没有一个男人是以猜女友心思为乐的。为这个原因,失去一个好男人,真的很可惜。
11.不要一开始就在男人面前做贤惠状。如果他对你的付出心安理得,却不懂回报,他有大男子主义的嫌疑。如果你时间长了,心里放松了,做得没有以前好,他会很受伤,会觉得你骗了他或是你不爱他了。不如一开始,就有分寸的表达爱意,给他表现的机会,让他为你做些事。说实话,男人对自己付出的东西印象比较深刻。他为你做得越多,付出越多,他对你越留恋,越不开。反而,你的付出,他的获得他比较没感觉。在婚姻中,常干家务活,常照顾孩子的男人放弃婚姻的可能性要低得多,也正是因为这个家是他辛苦造就的,他更舍不得放弃。很多花心狠心的男人都有一个最贤惠,无私的女人在默默付出。我最终下决心嫁给自己的男友,是因为他和我说:我非常操心你,,我总怕你过得不好,或是遇上什么事,只要一不看见你,我就非常担心你。他的付出和我的感激是我们俩最好的相处模式。

12.当断则断。人人都有犯错的可能,但如果一错再错,就是自己有问题。好多姐妹因为“和他在一起N年了”,“他是我第一个男人”,“我为他流过N个孩子了”,“我为了付出了……”“我已经……岁了”而忍受和一个不善待自己的男人生活在一起,最后受伤的还是自己。我的一个朋友和我说过:这个世界上的事,没有一成不变的,它要么变好,要么变坏,总之,没有不变的。这句话直接促使我走出了一段不好的感情。因为,我知道,如果要变,那段感情只会变得更差,以后我受得伤会更多。我的勇敢是我现在过得不错最坚实的基础。
13.因为爱而爱,不是为了一场漂亮的婚礼或是梦想中奢华的生活而爱。一切幸福都需付出代价,但不要让有些代价毁了你的一生。年轻的女生容易被虚荣所蒙蔽,但在真正的婚姻中,那个能在夜里给你盖上蹬掉的被子的男人才是值得托付一生的男人。
14.要珍惜真正爱你且对你好的男人。好的男人会以真正对你有益的方式对你好,不是纵容你,也不是以爱你的名义束缚你。这样的男人很少,如果遇到了,一定要珍惜。年轻的男人往往会以纯真的方式爱自己的女友,他可能不成熟,但他的爱是真的,不要轻意放弃。以后在社会上历练多了,你才会知道一颗真心有多宝贵。
15.一切都来得及。这个世上有很多好男人正是苦苦寻找另一半。不是所有的男人都只爱处女,也不是所有的男人都会在乎你以前的婚姻,更不是所有的男人都在意你的年龄学历。有很多好的婚姻中,男人爱的,是自己女人的笨,天真及及圆圆的身材,或是嘴角的那颗痣。你受过的伤,他会加倍疼惜,你的勇敢,会让他更加尊重。所以,即使受了伤,也要像金三顺一样,勇敢去爱,就像没有受过伤一样。你只有首先开放了自己,这个世界才会放开你


16.不要为男人一开始的追求就付出自己的心。好男人和坏男人在追求你之初,都会关心你,接你送你,给你发短信,在你生病时照顾你。不要一有人对你好,你就马上陷进去,想一想,多看一看,再做决定。一般,四个月,足够的接触,足以让你了解他。网上的交往不算的,再长时间的网络接触也不算的,真实的生活才有意义。你要和他一起吃饭,逛街,一起做些事,才能了解他。你过得快不快乐,你自己知道。很多时候,不是男人在欺骗我们,是我们自己在骗自己。17.如果爱他,接受他的现在,别幻想他的改变。
如果他能改,当然最好,不然,就想一想,你能不能接受。婚前的每一个缺点,婚后都会被放大。他抽烟,而你又爱他,就努力接受吧,婚后戒烟的男人太少了。其他缺点也是一样。
18.30岁以上的男人往往生活习惯、生活方式已经固定,为一个女人完全改变的可能性不太大了,他更需要你去适应他。反而是年轻的男人比较愿意为心爱的女人改变。

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这是 高慧君 的哪一首  认真的女人最美 mp3
http://www.box.net/shared/jode715iyr


 

Refe: http://www.popyard.com/cgi-mod/newspage.cgi?num=488822&r=0

Sunday, March 7, 2010

乘客突然拍了拍计程车司机的肩膀,还没来得及说什么,司机就吓得尖叫了一声,随即车子失控,差点酿成大祸。
司机︰「对不起,我是第一天开计程车。过去25年,开的都是灵车。」


午夜伤心的电话

在半梦半醒之中,突然间一位台湾朋友打电话过来,她大声地哭着和告诉我说, 他分手了很伤心,几年来的的感情就这样没了,她好伤心,好伤心。 我也哑口无言和发呆的听着她哭,刚巧一辆车经过放着一首  熊天平 的   ” 爱情多瑙河 “ 唱着这样的一段 


“ .......... 你的起点

也许是我永远到不了的终点
让我飘飘荡荡


我不停的追逐 那黑色的幸福
就像是蒙上眼睛 追逐你的路

我扬起万千风帆 告诉你我好孤单
在幽幽蓝蓝多烦恼多恼河 我企图欺骗自己
爱情没有烦恼  只是你没有目标 让我迷失多恼河.......”


朋友伤心了,只有安慰她说,感情的事很难说,当爱情褪色了就要看开一点,你在刻苦挽回也没有往日的光彩, 因为他的起点是你到不了的终点,但何必要折磨自己呢,你也知道了,在感情的路上伤心是难免的, 就把这段感情是一场没有开始的梦吧。


古人说“ 命理有时终惜有,命理无时莫强求” 我说如果爱离开了,就样他去吧,因为他不是你的缘分,就不要再勉强他/她了, 只有等待下 一站的幸福吧!





下面是下载  熊天平 的  爱情多瑙河 Mp3

http://www.box.net/shared/u726vtrthh